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My Motivation Song

Listening to songs is just wonderful . The beats fill me with enthusiasm , the lyrics  calm my mind , the aesthetic experience  brings me the real happiness

My Motivation Song

Matlabi ho ja zara matlabi , Duniya ki sunta hai kyun , khud ki bhi sun le kabhi …….

Well it’s a bollywood song which I like , rather it gives me motivation  . Matlabi ho ja zara matlabi, duniya ki sunta hai kyun , khud ki bhi sun le kabhi . Really in our everyday life, we are most of the  times listening to others , feeling concerned  for others and working for others  . Sometimes I am listening to my  Boss, sometimes I am satisfying my hubby’s ego ,  sometimes I am cooking according to the family’s wishes. What’s this yaar ? Am I here to live according to Duniya ??

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There comes this song to relieve me , motivate me and make me happy . If not possible everyday , let me be Matlabi once in a while. Let me do what just My heart wishes, something that I really like , which brings the real smile to my soul.

The song gives me motivation to  prioritize myself , love myself , live for myself . 

 

Kuch baat galat bhi ho jaye , kuch der ye dil bhi kho jaye , Befikar Dhadkane, is tarah se chale , shor goonje ….

These form the next lines of the song . O Wow ! How true ?? I am a human being yaar , certain things may go wrong at times. Why do I need to listen to others if some sort of mistake occurs ? I wish my mind  to remain  undisturbed in all situations .

It happens many times that my mind finds itself in a fix , unsure of other’s  nature of response , whether to ask hubby about going alone at a party , or to ask Boss about a leave .

Should I ask ?? No No I think I shouldn’t . I tell you  there are many many such moments when my brain cells start making some complex movements  & my heart starts zapping up tick -tock -tick-tock . But I don’t want things going this way . I wish to be relaxed , happy-go-lucky . I want Befikar Dhadkane for myself .

I want to live for  myself , loving myself.

Let me sing and dance , it makes me happy .

Let me take fake medical leave at job  and go vacation with friends , acting stupid with them brings me lot of smiles.

Let me leave just everything and spend lots of time with my Dad , as resting on his shoulder has the power even today to make  me Befikar . (Read these tips from my Dad)

Well , that was about one of my motivation songs . Which one is yours ?

Keep singing !

Read my xperiments with motivation 

 

 

 

 

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