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I stand tall and Undeterred #Prerna #BlogchatterA2Z

Do you  know the meaning of the word ‘Undeterred’ ? The cambridge dictionary defines it as :

still continuing to do something or enthusiastic about doing it despite setbacks or bad situations 

In hindi if you look for its meaning , it is  अडिग

Be undeterred for achieving your goals

It’s your life . You have some aspirations and goals which you are working towards . May be the journey is long , the path has many obstacles , or you have to face many ups and downs but be always undeterred as it’s your one precious life .

Don’t loose hope at the feet of fear or failure . Failure is not the end . It’s just a process to teach you many lessons . If not this time , you would succeed for sure in your next attempt . Don’t be discouraged .

Keep working towards your goals consistently .

Be undeterred by the judgements and views of others

In real life , you are being judged by many people . Sometimes those judgements make you  feel bad about yourself or you  start questioning your strengths or you  just put a fullstop doing the things for which you  were being judged . Those judgements may make you  downhearted or in other words I should say you  loose hope .

But that’s the time you  need to stand tall and undeterred .

  • Ask your heart if you are right or wrong . If you feel right then just don’t let those judgement of others demotivate you .

 

  • Question your mind about your strengths – are your strengths and abilities  so weak that the judgement of others would put a fullstop ?

 

  • Dig deep and introspect  if your conscience is a slave of judgement of others .

People are people you know . Some are born to make just judgements or pull others down . They love doing this . No need to waste time explaining who you are . You don’t need to live a life according to them . It’s your Life . Rethink of your strengths , beliefs remaining undeterred by the judgements and views of others .

I would like to share a small anecdote here .

Newton , the great scientist was once wearing an old  coat . One of his friends pointed towards his coat and said ” Sir  Newton , there’s a small hole in your coat . It is reflecting your poverty “

Newton replied crisply ” My friend  , I think it is nothing  but  your foolishness trying to enter through this hole ” 

Why waste your precious thought-power just over the judgements made by others ?

Why is she judged ? Read another post 

Stand undeterred for what you believe in . Keep doing hard work , move  forward , fulfill your aspirations and live your life fully . Once you achieve Big in life  , you would notice the judgements of others being  transformed to appreciations .

Stand tall and undeterred.

undeterred

 

 

I stand undeterred 

अडिग खड़ी रहूंगी मैं

हौंसला न हारूंगी , प्रयास कभी न छोडूंगी
अपने सपने पूर्ण करने हेतु
अडिग खड़ी रहूंगी मैं

मुश्किलें लाख आ जाएँ , कदम यदि लड़खड़ा जाएँ
गिरकर खुद ही संभलने की प्रबलता है मुझमें
मुश्किलों का सामना करने हेतु
अडिग खड़ी रहूंगी मैं

तुम मुझे क्या परखोगे तुम मुझे क्या आँकोगे
कहाँ तुम्हारी न्यून सोच , कहाँ मैं निर्भीक

विचलित मुझे तुम ना कर पाओगे
आत्मविश्वास मेरा ना दबा पाओगे
ज़िंदगी को अपनी शर्तों पे जीने हेतु
अडिग खड़ी रहूंगी मैं
हाँ  ! अडिग खड़ी रहूंगी मैं

 

 

 

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