I was in college , doing my graduation . Although it was too early to think of but somehow the journeys of the fantasy world had started -where a handsome Prince comes running on a horse , looking for his princess . That princess in my fantasy world was none other than ME . But the Prince Charming was still unknown . Yes I started dreaming of marriage and that too love marriage . Watching hero heroines in movies , enormously in love with each other ,and also watching few girls in my college who spent hours talking on phone and blushing , spending bucks on lipsticks and sometimes highlighting their eyes with gifted eyeshadows , their boyfriends waiting for them on bikes in the evening after college time , all this wrote in my mind that I also wanted Love . I would also go for love marriage . But neither in college nor in university there came anybody to pick me on bike , except my father coming occasionally to pick me up on his scooter . I had disclosed my love marriage wish to my parents too and they were also not narrow minded , But , where was the Love whom I wanted to marry ? Even after my education was complete , The Love luck didn’t arrive . Was it because I didn’t use lipsticks and eyeshadows or my pure bad luck that nobody came to search for me playing mandolin in the sunflower farms , as in DDLJ ? Finally Dad started searching my LOVE LUCK in the newspaper matrimonials . After lot of search , via many mediums , my marriage was settled – Arranged marriage . Was I to find love out of this Arranged marriage ? And yes , after the engagement day , I could feel a slow onset of Love in the air . I also felt special when He came to pick me from home . I also blushed when we dated for the first time , hands trying to come closer and hold on but the stupid shyness posed a barrier . Huh ! But just then another moment made me feel like flying in the sky when he surprised me & gifted me a box beautifully wrapped in the red sheet with hearts printed on it and also a red rose along with it . Aww…that moment was so romantic . I wished he could bend too on his knees !!!!! I opened the gift with an adrenaline rush in my heart and Wow …It was a phone …..It was Nokia mobile phone ……and you know what – it was my first phone of my life …..
Hey ! I was just remembering my happy old times and felt like sharing with you . Those funny moments in the college , the romantic heart-beating moments with my future spouse or the first Gift I got from him –all these memories are so precious for me . These happy old moments are my asset . Well ! Just remembering our happy times can refresh us and make us feel happy , sometimes laugh too . Many times it happens that we remember our old times and smile even if we are just sitting alone . Doesn’t it happen with you ? Yes it happens with all of us .
Life has become a race today , we are all hurriedly rushing here and there . Life brings along smiles and sorrows together . May be the nature wants to keep a balance . Sometimes when something bad occurs in our life we start grieving , we start feeling stressed and sometimes we blame even the Supreme Power . One little way to keep our lives simple and happy can be to just remember the happy old times . No doubt there may be bad memories also but Let’s focus only on the heartwarming memories — which have the power to make us smile .
Remember the old times when you fell so many times while learning to ride a bicycle , when you used to fight with your siblings for a little piece of chocolate , when you bunked your classes in school , when you draped your Mom’s saree for the first time at the college farewell party , when you had crush on someone , when you had a funny meeting with a matrimonial guy advised by your parents , when God blessed you with a little angel , when you laughed with your friends , when you shared hugs n kisses moments with your spouse or shared some exciting moments with your family at any wedding occasion . Remember any of such happy old memories . This will help you just Stop from the rush of life and calm you – no matter what is going in your life right now .
The most beautiful things in life are not THINGS . They are happy old memories and moments . Just Sit , relax and remember the happy memories . Celebrate happy memories !
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My writing theme for September is #LetusKISS – Let us keep it Simple and Significant . Life is not that complex or complicated . It is We only who make it complicated . We just have to find ways to make it Simple & Significant . We have to find ways to feel calm , and remembering the happy old moments can certainly prove to be very significant .
I shared my happy old memories with you . Now it’s your turn . Don’t you love smiles on your face ? Yes ! Everybody does . Ok then , Do share some of your happy old memories in the comments below . Smile !!!!!!!!
Read my post 1 under the theme #LetusKISS
Read my post 2 under the theme #LetusKISS
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