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#Love - The purest and eternal form of Love is Motherhood #BlogchatterA2Z

L stands for LOVE

Motherhood is the greatest form of Love on this earth . The love which is pure and eternal . I think only a mother can feel how it feels to be a mother . God has gifted every woman with this wonderful  bond of Love .

Thankyou God for the  gift of Motherhood

(I am a Mom to a daughter who is eleven years old now .   Today I want to share  about  what I love about my gift of  Motherhood )

After I got married , I had to undergo abortion even before I celebrated my first anniversary . It was certainly depressing  but after around one year more , I conceived again . Since the day I saw her as a seed in my first ultrasound , I am in Love with my gift of motherhood . From that ultrasound  day to the day I delivered her and till today , I can feel the love rising . Her smiles are so real and hugs so pure that they automatically bring smile on my face , in my heart , in my soul . I love to care for her , even worry for her.

You can read the post I wrote on my abortion 

When she was an infant , I loved to massage her ,  bathe her and moisture her skin . I loved to breast feed her and constantly looking at her radiant face brought delight . Whenever she fell sick , I loved to wrap her in blanket and hold her tight , singing cradle songs . I loved to be awake and I loved to make her rest on my tummy  so that she could sleep peacefully . I loved when she cuddled , so what even if she pulled my hair ? I loved when she started crawling and used to come to kitchen and play with potatoes . When she grew up and started going to school , I loved when  I also attended her play school for five days along with her so as to adjust her in new environment. When she was able to make new friends , I loved to keep looking at her playing with friends .

More of my motherhood memories 

Motherhood

Today when she is eleven years old and has completed primary schooling , I love to encourage her when she gets less marks . I love to guide her , strengthen her . I love to act bold in front of her even if my situations are trying to weaken me . I love to cry with her when she falls on road .  I love to help her in  Mathematics problems and I also love when she teaches me science on her blackboard .  I love when she has now started suggesting  me about my dressing style .  I love when she  herself drapes  saree , tries my heels and ramp walks in front of the mirror , but it becomes difficult to love her when she uses all my moisturiser and sunscreens to make slime . I love to get lots of hugs from her whenever I make Rajma chawal for her . I love when she gets down from school bus and runs to me and  I also love when she eats my brain telling all happenings at school .

Motherhood is the purest form of love which proves itself when she hugs me every now and then . Her warmth  and touch overflows  so much in my heart  that it  sometimes  wets my eyes too . Motherhood completes my identity .

 

 

Motherhood mantras

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