Skip to main content

#Independent - Is SHE really independent ? #BlogchatterA2Z #Astitva

I stands for : Independent

#independent

(  What does this  picture tell you ?   To me , it tells that a woman who   has the wings , who  has the ability to fly , who has the power within to glow , still  has been  enslaved in a glass cage .  )

A piece of fiction on the word Independent

My excitement got high up to the sky as I read the  mail  about getting  shortlisted  for  an official Dubai trip. The company must have seen some quality in me that I was required to head the team at this five days conference  . My smile , my pride , my ability , all got its wings . I got so eager to share the news with someone at the earliest . And who else would   be  better than My Better Half ?  I quickly picked up phone and dialled .

” O Aadi , I am so  so so happy today , U know what ? I am going to Dubaiiiii ” I was in such a sparky mood

What to say of happy or sparky , the voice just didn’t come from the other side .

“Aadi , Hello ! Are you there ? Did you listen ?  Are you able to hear me ? ”

” Hmm Hmm ” just a cold sigh from Aaditya  and  a low voice came ” Let’s talk when we get back home ”

His response repressed the excitement and my musical mood . Many  thoughts and questions  started knocking   . When we sat together in the evening ,  his exasperating mood clearly demonstrated  the attack on a  male’s  ego   and his mindset  of keeping a  beautiful wife in a glass cage .  I tried explaining ,  first by love but  had to insist afterwards .   Choked family atmosphere was not going to be a new thing for me .  After all  it was my heart’s long awaited wish & lifetime opportunity .

I packed my bags and he had to come to say me  bye , unheartedly. There was my team waiting for me at the airport . He posed a smile to the five males of the team and asked the only other female  “How many girls in all ? ”

“Aadi , we are just two girls ”   With a fake smile I hugged him from the waist and said “Don’t worry ok ,  Take care, I’ll miss you  ” I tried to  draw the outline  of an understanding caring  hubby to my colleagues .

As soon as we entered the plane , my phone buzzed : Message from Aaditya : Oh , So this was the reason you were insisting so much . So many males ! Oh ! seems  you have got bored from me !  And Dubai is the ideal place . Enjoy baby ! Have fun .

Shortly , the flight attendants    requested  everybody  to click the airplane mode button on their  phones   ,  But you know what my fingers  clicked on  first ?  Clicked  Yes on “Do you want to block  Aaditya ?”

My thoughts on the word ‘Independent’

This story was a little example of women’s everyday   handcuffs . Even today ,  when we are living in 21st century , when we talk of Independence , freedom , gender inequality , women empowerment , our mindsets are not able to provide the real independence to women . Like in the picture  above , she has the wings , she has the ability to fly , she has the power within to glow ,but she has been  enslaved in a glass cage . Why ? Why is  SHE  not given support to fly , to fulfilll her dreams ?  Why couldn’t Aaditya sound equally exciting to her on phone ? Wouldn’t this have been so motivating for the female ? He would have gained lifetime  more love and respect . But….

The point which needs to be analysed is that Is she really independent ? Are’nt we still trying to enslave her mind ?   Don’t  our doubts  razzle-dazzle her love  , her purity , her  existence ?   Actually the action and conscious in which male finds his transcendence , is a silly bamboozle . It brings negativity . Let her be independent in the real manner . She no longer wants to live her life enchained . Let’s break the shackles !  Just love her and let her be .

Independent

 

 

 

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Zoozoozoo : A journey

 Today is Sunday ,  May 1st 2022 and yesterday i was invited to my daughter's school to witness a small function.  My daughter Suhani was born in 2007 and the day clearly flashes in front of my eyes when she got on to the auditorium stage for her first annual function during her LKG class . I had dressed her up in a beautiful purple frock . The auditorium echoed  with the sounds of claps as the team LKG stepped on to the stage and took their positions as couples . Their teacher had blushed  everyone's cheeks pink and golden. The song started 'Zoozoozoo......we welcome you ......' and the kiddos started twisting their hips and legs holding on to their partners . Awww...it was such an adorable performance that a mother couldn't control her tears .  Watching some  kids who forgot their dance steps and wanted to just run here and there on the stage was fun too !  Yesterday was the day when she again marched  on to the auditorium,  this time ...

A letter to my Kitchen

 Being a woman i also spend lot of time in my kitchen whether full heartedly , half heartedly or not at all heartedly . But in any case i have to go in my kitchen off and on . Today I feel like writing a letter to my kitchen. Dear Kitchen    Hope you are living a fulfilling life with all your jars filled to the brim with wheat , rice , pulses , sugar , tea ,coffee and cookies . I also hope that your sinks are now empty and clean unlike the last month when maid was on leave . Those days ,your sinks used to be piled up with utensils and it stinked so badly .  Dear kitchen , it's been around seventeen years that i am taking care of you . Now you are grown up as a teenager and so you should learn to be responsible and maintain your hygiene .  It feels good when my family agrees on khichdi and your cooker does the job   in  just one whistle . But you just don't cooperate when they demand Chole Bhature and you also start giving me tantrums . Remember ho...

Mindfulness ki Aisi ki Taisi

 Two years ago I had written two posts about mindfulness on my blog . One was about what mindfulness is and other exclusively  about food mindfulness. Food mindfulness suggests that one gets conscious of one's food plate - check if the ingredients are high in carbs or low in proteins , check if you are consuming more sugary foods , keep a check that your breakfast plate should me fullest and dinner plate the lightest . There's lot to be checked you know . But point is that if i keep checking all this stuff ,how do i enjoy food ?  What's the harm if my cheese is  served as paneer butter masala ? Won't chole bhature mind if i have only dry chapati with moong dal ? And why these sprouts and salads  feel egoistic in being on top of food mindfulness? Kya gunaah kar diya humne agar cream salad kha liya ? After all it's a salad only .   And you know my breakfast plate just does not obey the rule of it being heaviest.  Instead the dinner plate gets jam p...