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Hey bhagwan ,main hi kyu?????--from the life of a famous tennis player

Duniya ke ek mahaan tennis player Arthur Robert Ashe jab AIDS ki bimari se ghir gaye to unke lakhon hi fans ke unke pas unlimited letters aye jinme pucha gya tha ” Bhagwan ne aap ke sath hi aisa kyu kiya? Iske answer me Arthur ne jo likha usko dhyan se padiye……

Puri duniya me 5 crore bachhe tennis khelte hain. Unme se 50 lakh bachhe tennis khelna seekhte hain. Un 50 lakh bachho me se sirf 5 lac professional tennis khelte hain. Unme se bhi aage sirf 500 Grandslam me part lete hain aur sirf 50 wimbledon tak pahunchte hain. Aakhir me sirf 4 semifinals khelte hain aur sirf 2 final khelte hain. Arthur ne kaha ” Jab maine wimbledon me  gold medal jeeta tab maine bhagwan se nhi pucha ” hey bhagwan main hi kyu? “…..Jab maine us time nhi pucha to aaj is dard me main bhagwan se puchne ka haqdaar nhi hu “hey bhagwan main hi kyu “

Asal me hum sukh ko to bade maze se accept krte hain aur sochte hain ke yeh to meri mehnat ka natija hai ,mujhe milna hi tha….achi education hogyi….achi job laggyi…….acha life partner mil gya…..acha ghar …..badi gaadi…….aage bacho ki bi padai achi ho rahi hai……arey ye sab to hona hi tha……maine mehnat jo ki…….but mehnat to baki sab ne bhi ki na……unme se kayi lagon ko ye sab nahi mil paya……ा

To hume sukh aur dukh dono ko accept krna chahiye…….. i am reminded of the hindi song …..”sansaar hai ik nadiya sukh dukh do kinaare hain…” So just go with the flow of life…….. And dont ask ” why just me ?”

Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can. - Arthur Ashe

Aap jahan hain wahin se start kijiye ….aapke pas jo hai usko hi use krke jo bhi kar sakte hain kriye….

Success is a journey, not a destination. The doing is often more important than the outcome. - Arthur Ashe

Safalta(Success) …..manzil nahi balki safar hai ………karm karte rehna parinaam (result) se zyada important hai……

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