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Keep Yourself Alive

 Are you alive ? Are you thankful that you are alive ? I am writing this in some spare  time at my workplace and a few minutes ago I got to know about the sudden death of one of our collleagues  . Always smiling and helpful to all , he was in his early forties . Leaving his family and kids crying  , he just decided to fly away , may be to a happier world ( atleast that's what i wish ) 

Well ! I never intended to begin with  anything of this sort but today's news has left me disturbed you know . 

All i can do is to be thankful that I am alive , hale n hearty .

Life is so unpredictable you see but still we all have filled our life with hatred , jealousy , competition, ego , leg-pulling , stress, frustration and what not . You or Me can just disappear in a moment and then ? 

Let's simplify our life ....a life which is easy going , happy and filled with love for all . Let's stop rushing ! Let's stop judging others ! Let our ego go off with smiles , hugs and gratitude for all God has granted us . Isn't our life much better than of many others ? Aren't we blessed in many ways ? 

I should be happy in my world . Let me focus more on the things as well people  that are stress-buster for me , that fill me with love and  excitement , that keep me alive ! 

If my dreams keep me alive , why don't i spend more time working for them ? If  meeting my best friends can bring positive vibes in me , why have i lost touch with them ? Have i overbusied myself with the job and family responsibilities ? Ofcourse i don't want to turn a back towards my responsibilities but at the same time ; out of this humdrum  of life I need that little spark that is essential for my soul .

I doubt if my words have  left you yawning  but what to do ,  those exactly are  the latram patram thoughts going on in my mind today . 

To make you feel alive😊 Let me share one of my calligraphy works here 


I am writing this post as a part of #BlogchatterA2Z festival 2022


Comments

  1. Being fully alive is both an art and a skill today. Btw, your calligraphy is splendid too.

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  2. May his soul RIP.

    My 30s have taught me to be grateful with what I have and to aspire towards my goals. Gratitude is the biggest asset we should all have.

    I totally agree with you on losing touch with friends.

    I liked your theme. Hoping to read again tomorrow.

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  3. The post is very well written ! Also , your calligraphy looks awesome ❣️

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  4. Firstly love your work! And yes, we realize this late that we are grateful that we are alive. My happy time is writing and it brings that best of me.

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  5. Indeed few people know the art of living. Fantastic writing

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  6. Being alive is a blessing itself, and I truly believe it from my heart and soul. Lovely scribble Monika. - Swarnali Nath

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  7. Amazing calligraphy work & a very valid post!

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